Well, I followed up with the lady last night. My male co-workers thought it would be appropriate...but I didn't use the language they were suggesting. I just felt that for my own self respect, it was right to let her know that I felt somewhat disrespected...so I did so in a nice way. I wrote "Hi xxxxx, I'm sorry that you have chosen not to respond to my invitation. I would have appreciated a yes, no, maybe or not if you were the last man on earth (OK, not that one!) but, c'est la vie. All the best to you" To my surprise she responded at 12:30 a.m. "Whatis, I've been away most of the week and August is a really busy month 'cuz I'm moving, but we'll see what we can do, OK? ...and thanks for the invite smile " I responded "I'm glad to see you haven't closed my case file lol. I can empathize with the stress of moving, you wonder "where did all this stuff come from and what am I going to do with it!" August is pretty clear for me as many of my activities close down for the summer. So let's keep in touch and if we can find time for coffee, great conversation...and a disgustingly rich dessert, then let's do it" I then told her my plans to go to a concert with a friend tonight and asked her plans, was she still away...
Anyway, that's that. We'll see where it leads...if anywhere. I was driving to work this morning and suddenly what I wrote hit me "then let's do it!" OMG. But, I've checked the context of the sentence and it's cool lol.
Tonight I'm going to a concert in the park with my best friend and hope it doesn't rain. Later Dbers.


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White