I haven't been tempted by the opposite sex (and that is the God's honest truth. Sometimes I wonder if I will ever feel or allow myself to feel another romantic feeling ever again, and that makes me cry). But I understand why you are.
Thx Mlp thats what I was asking . I needed a clearer view on how to handle the opposite sex in regards to getting a life and how it seems to have lead me in that direction . Im going to have to choose activities that dont include the opposite sex
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
I feel soo weak . I want to give in to temptation but i realize thats what the W did .If i was to give in it could or most likely would make my sitch worse
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
MLP has given a great link to an insightful article. Take this from it, Dawgy. You cannot control your W. Period.
You must learn to control yourself. I find that to be the greatest challenge. Just try not to test yourself by engaging in conversation with the opposite sex. Yes, choose activities that don't include women. At least that'll keep you away from temptation while you learn the skill of self-restraint and self control.
While improving your self control, work on other aspects of your character.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
You can also read what DBinSF is doing these days for his self-improvement. The difference, of course, is that he was the cheater...but the similarity is that he's trying to stay faithful to his WAS. I like his list. It's worth looking at for ideas.
Having abetter day today only because W was so nice last night . Just like her old self . Om not sure why but i guess it doesnt matter . Believe none of what she says and half of what she does Right ?? I felt so good . Anyway that had a direct influence on my demeanor today . Kids are going away friday night for the night which leaves us alone . I dont know what to do . She doesnt want to be alone with me so it seems . So I think i have to make a plan to go away for the night myself . The only thing is , I know where she will be . With OM . I want to ask her what she wants to do . If she says be with him it will kill me . Im in a pinch and I dont know how to handle this
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
rolls eyes right.