Maybe If h is handy he can help with mate de issues as he's on the house too!
If the value and maintenance goes down he is directly effected. If it increased he would also benefit. He might be willing to look at it that way? Perhaps.
Is a job change going to help with money issues? What sort of job can you get to increase the budget? Ironing house cleaning office cleaning mending clothing alterations? Sell items on eBay?
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26