Can you say anything right in ow or his eyes right now?
nope
Can you be you and better and nicer sure.
Most of the information is on everyone's thread, pick on that most suits you.
Lay down the rule of no m/friends while ow. Which s gives out regularly. You can glean tips from nearly ever single thread. You have kids so there will be more contact.
In my case my child is mine his adult child is his. None between, nothing to keep the door open. Even tho we both lived in a small town, I have never met h. Even tho my relatives knew him. So in 30 years we had never ever crossed paths.
It can be that way again. If things stay in the ditch it will be that way, I cannot do friends with x partners bf or h.
What is it especially need? Those that come here might be able to throw out some ideas.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
