First post, DENIAL was my HAPPY PLACE!!

[juliegayle]

Bea thank you for sharing. I was thinking of you when I wrote above post. Not depressing in that it is what I have been expecting. In the beginning I said I was grateful to h for opening my eyes to many less than pleasant things about myself. I won't take over Shining's thread by listing them!!

Anyway. I realize that when I realized he was in crisis I changed my attitude toward him. Jerk who has an affair and dumps his wife I despise and want to D right away. Depressed man escaping from life with alcohol and OW is in crisis and the "in sickness and in health" trigger goes off. Does that make sense?

Focus back on me and s. There is a song that s likes on the radio. He doesn't listen to the words except for the chorus.

"I didn't know I was broken till I wanted to change". I will keep working on enhancing myself.