Shining. I am with you in wanting to learn more. My h is clearly one of the mean ones. It is nearly 1 year since BD and I think 2 since start of crisis. Maybe a bit longer. He is still spiraling down. I would like to read some threads to get some idea of time line. Wonka had said on another thread that he rarely sees the really mean ones make it out. H is so stubborn and now so arrogant.

Ps thanks for your support on my thread. Had to chuckle at your headache comments.


Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15