Last night was great! Went climbing w/the "why not adventure" group, then to a Mex. restaurant. I had asked H on Sunday if he wanted to meet up after and he said he wasn't sure. So, I DID NOT pursue. I left it at that & figured he knows where I'll be! Surprise! He left a vm on my phoney phone and said that he would be heading up to the Mex. rest. at about 10. That was nice! I introduced him to some people. I used to "coddle" him b/c he is so shy, now I just act as if he isn't and then he isn't!
This morn. we both woke up before alarm clock. I said I had to go to the store in the am to get dog food...unless you will do it for me. He said that he would & did! yay!! And, he took the movie back that I watched while he wasn't talking to me on Friday.
Tonight I have the option to go for girls' night out to Friday's or go play vball. If I play vball, that would mean din. w/h prob. H is going out Wed. We are biking Thurs w/the group, and I still need to talk to my cousin about Fri. Should I just buck up and spend all this time away from him???
I know before it has done wonders for HIM...but for me??? I think it helps me too, it's just getting past the separation anxiety stage that is hard for me.
Ha ha! It was too late to change it! Shucks! 
