Leave her alone. That is the answer, be gone from her life and don't concern yourself with what she is doing or try to do friendly things with her. MOVE ON and let her get that you have done so. She will either follow, if she believes you have truly given up, or she will continue on her own journey. Right now, you are both just spinning in place. You've been told this over and over and yet you still claim you don't understand. With an Ivy league or similar education, everyone knows that you do understand what you are supposed to do. They are just tired that you are not doing it or listening. Really, it seems to me that you don't really want to do the work, you are too afraid so you really just want your hand held. You are better than that. Stop wasting your time and everyone elses. Man the f_ck up and handle your business like a boss. It's time. Fear is not your friend. Rid it from your existence and grow a set.
I guess the difficulty comes from the fact that we live in the same house and have a son that lives with us. The shopping is for food for the house etc..
How do people lovingly detach when they live in the same home?
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
