Saving my marriage by focusing on ME (Part 2)

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"I really needed answers not to be berated.

I feel like my chance for R is 50/50, I just have to wait for her to tire of OM.

Can you just answer my questions?"

Wow what a rude post. You really don't get it do you? You are trying to control the posters' responses to you just like how you're STILL trying to control your W. Your post about your interaction with your W is full of controlling and mindreading behaviors.

You do understand that claire7 and others take time out of their busy days to offer their SUGGESTIONS to you with no benefit to them, don't you? They don't deserve rude responses.

I was not trying to be rude.
The food shopping is for my family home. we were sharing this responsibility. I was under pressure because she literately just asked me to go to dinner with her as well.

Its very hard to cut someone completely out of your life when you live in the same house.

I apologize to claire7.

And what was so rude and controlling about my response to my wife. I was told that she is very passive aggressive. The best way to respond to her is with simple one word responses.
The "K" was how I was told to respond when she does not give me a definitive reply.