Hi FY, I understand this and have been very careful to limit what I say about my W and my's sitch. I only say that she has things she needs to work on and that I have tried my best to give her space and time. I hope that once she starts to come out of her MLC, even if I'm no longer in the picture, she will listen to them. They are good people who do care about her but just don't understand what she is going through. It's like my parents wanting to send my W a letter not long after B-day. I told them all that would do is cause her to resent me and them. Had that feeling even before I knew it was MLC.
