Question here. One of my boundaries has been no OM in my car or our house.
I am switching cars with my W for the upcoming holiday. I will be gone for a long time. When W asked about switching cars, I made reference to the fact that I was comfortable a long as my boundary was maintained. I was then accused of being controlling and an [censored]. Everything I do I was told is controlling.
I understand she is free to do what she wants, and the trick for me is that I guess maybe it is a bit controlling to do that? I just feel that it's not something I will tolerate. But I do need the other car. Any thoughts?
