Ok Train and Starsky (and the rest of you I know I am forgetting) be proud of me....

H just sent a text saying his mom wants to know what the cheapest place to purchase backpacks is right now....
1.) why didn't she just text me???? (she texts me all the time)
2.) it drives me INSANE that she buys/donates school supplies and Christmas gifts THEN asks to borrow $$$$

I ignored H's text and instead replied directly to his mom with the wanted information and left it at that...

This is accomplishing 2 things I am working on.
-Ignoring H unless about kids/absolutely have to
-My 180 of not complaining to H about stupid crap his family does, as normally I would have sent H a text saying "Why do we loan your mom $$$ why can't she realize she has her own bills to pay and stop donating so we don't have to pay her bills?"


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction