Thanks ladies. When he talks like that I let it go in one ear and out the other. I have thought it was healthy detachment but maybe it is the opposite. Maybe I have gotten so used to the verbal abuse this past year I just accept it. Not sure.

I document everything in a journal and write some stuff on here as back up documentation. I have nothing official though

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15