I would say take care of all the legal stuff and work on your issues. Is your W currently having an affair? You need to file asap because "most" states don't allow anything to be sold/transferred after one person files without the partner consenting.

Give us some more background info and not just what sneaky stuff your wife is doing. How long have you been married, kids? What issue(s) did you/wife have in the marriage, what 180's are you working on?

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction