I'm fairly new here, so take my advice with a grain of salt, but the way I see it is:

If your wife came running back to you head over heels and truly wanting to repair and rebuild your relationship in the next week, would you take her back over anyone else and be happy and ecstatic with your new future together with your wife. If the answer to this is yes, then you should not be dating. I know at some point, that people have to move on, but for the current time this is how I see it.

This time is for fixing yourself for yourself, and finding happiness without being attached to another person.

~asat


Me 31 Her 30
M 5.5 T 11
0 Kids
Bomb drop: 4/13, EA+PA: 12/13
Separated: 12/13, 3rd chance of counseling:7/14