It's really hard to say if there's hope, not knowing your H, but you wouldn't be here if your H hadn't given you reason to be.

Do you have a sense for ways in which your H has changed that would help the relationship be more successful?

I'm not a vet, but what I've learned here in the last few months is that there is hope in many of the direst situations. So although I have little of substance to offer besides moral support, I'll keep bumping your posts till a vet comes by. I have a good one in mind... Track down 25yearsmlc.

Best to you!


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.