Well, I don't want a D. I want to rebuild. But, I know it takes two to do that and that it's hard and sometimes painful work. Until the past couple of weeks, H made it very, very clear that he wasn't interested. He has seemed to be torn between the safe haven (me) and the lure of "single" life. (All of his new friends are about his age, but have never been married.)
As for me, I'm torn between standing or just accepting the direction my life has taken and moving on.
The way I see it, I have 3 options. Stand and fight, accept being one of the "undivorced" for the sake of my financial future (I felt that H would be perfectly happy with that up until a few weeks ago), or moving on.
If there is hope, the choice for me is easy - stand!
So, I suppose I'm asking if anyone here sees that hope.
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013
