I'd like to suggest that you take some time and visit the MLC archives. There is a wealth information in those archives about the MLCer, the things they say and/or do, etc.
Do whatever you need to do in order to protect your assets and definitely watch the spending.
BTW, your h will become the exact opposite of the man you knew, i.e., as I call them...the mirror image of former selves. Do not rely on him for anything, as he will most often not to show up at appropriate times or do what you would have "expected of him pre crisis.
Live your life to the fullest and detach as much as you can.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
