"I don't think I mentioned this before, but the other week, I offered up the following thought/idea to my wife.
If we're going to remain friends, then she will need to find a way to come to terms and let go of her anger towards me. "
That's more control on your part. You can't tell her that she needs to release the anger she has for you. That's still you trying to get off the hook and want her to "get over it". Sorry, multiple A's don't get a pass.
Just more rug sweeping on your part.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.