IMO, you can still be mysterious while living with WAW. What kinds of things can you do away from home that would surprise your WAW? Salsa dancing lessons, scuba diving, skydiving?
What can you do to make your W think of you as confident and adventurous? What would it take for her to think you were sexy again?
How was your personality, character, and mannerisms when WAW first fell in love with you?
Start thinking about those things. Once you start to identify how you were, start working on changing.
