Matt I'm thinking the same thing. I'm done with being his doormat and just internalizing everything and letting him go on his merry way. Not sure if it really falls in line with standing or DBing but he needs to know when he's stepped over the line. Did I show too much emotion last night, not sure, but I dont think I did. There was no drama or yelling just simple statements made. and that was my sentiment exactly. I've never locked our bedroom door so if I did I obviously don't want to be around you. But he shows no respect for me so his actions just follow suit.

As to your W, sounds like she wanted space just like my H does when he goes to the basement, yet somehow even that's our fault. That's just the way their world turns I guess.


Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home