She keeps reinforcing the idea that her decision to leave has nothing to do with the OM. She's said to me on occasion that she doesn't know what the future holds with her relationship with the OM, but all she knows is that she's happy with him currently. Even if she stops the A, she won't return to me. She's said this recently.


M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!