She changes her clothes because her knickers get in knots? Or they become Russian up her bottom! your right. It's just that she never ever cut out of work for me. Could never stay up past 10 always wanted to be home by 12AM. I know I am still to focused on her. But Ox has for to get more of a life. It's like I am the only responsible adult at this time. Think crazy, he's nuts, she's nuts they're both nuts. you are so correct even the MC says there is something so dysfunctional about this A You cant control her job, but you can get ox another job. Or a second job or a third job.
Think what is my plan a if she is gone or fired? Plan b?
The emergency life raft should all those go to custard? Step one is get the little ducks all lined up, so ox is ok.
Steps to take with children should she leave the country? Ask all the questions is get on the front foot.
I doubt she's leaving at least not until S16 graduates high school.
If she decides to go to his country right now then she's absolutely nuts. If she tells me she's going again I am filing for divorce and getting a restraining order. My s21 says he's done with her at that point and S16 is goin to become an emancipated minor .