BIG "IF" he was letting me down easy... why ask me to go?... He could go himself... or do what we do with 99.8% of the rest of our out of town purchases... we SHIP and transport!!!
The "at best" scenario... is what he "says" he wants... last time we spoke he said, just not ready .."YET". I believe he does want to "work" on relationship skills... when HE IS READY. Not necessarily with me, but maybe.
AND... I do not want to "pin" him down any longer... I want it to be what HE wants...if thats what HE wants..... I need to know.
So.... is this crumbs?
Last edited by makingmagic; 07/30/1402:57 PM.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)