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Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks Shining #2474104 07/30/14 02:47 PM
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AJM Member A Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,622	LN, it's not likely he'll stray from the 90% him blame. It's likely accurate too. But then there's still the problem of being angry.... That's really it right? The big issue was his anger to begin with. He just didn't know how to handle it, so he did what he knew - he blamed you. To an outsider you know the answer, but to him, what else could he do? It needs to stop and if it's your fault, then you deserve it! Never mind that it wasn't. Your H is one of the lucky few if he's sticking with counselling. Even rarer if he found a good counselor. To be able to figure out that it's not you is HUGE in this arena. And it's very helpful for him (both of you really) to heal. AJ "Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."

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New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/04/14 01:30 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Cadet	04/04/14 10:59 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Wonka	04/04/14 11:25 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/06/14 11:39 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/06/14 11:45 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	04/07/14 04:15 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Wonka	04/07/14 04:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	owl777	04/07/14 06:20 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/07/14 10:02 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	04/08/14 03:20 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BklynMom	04/09/14 12:41 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/09/14 12:45 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	04/09/14 01:04 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/09/14 11:40 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	mleigh4	04/10/14 01:16 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	04/10/14 09:44 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/10/14 09:58 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	04/10/14 10:15 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/11/14 07:54 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/12/14 01:36 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/13/14 07:22 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/13/14 07:49 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	04/13/14 08:55 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	scooby	04/13/14 09:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/14/14 12:09 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/14/14 10:00 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/15/14 10:33 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/17/14 04:01 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/17/14 10:30 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	scooby	04/17/14 11:21 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	04/18/14 12:07 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/18/14 12:44 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/18/14 10:23 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/19/14 01:16 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	scooby	04/19/14 05:18 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	nyk	04/20/14 01:04 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	04/25/14 12:50 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	kml	04/25/14 12:59 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	praying_in_GA	04/25/14 05:36 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/08/14 04:16 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/08/14 11:49 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	05/09/14 11:58 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/13/14 01:17 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/14/14 02:00 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	TL72*	05/14/14 03:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Georgiabelle	05/14/14 03:32 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/15/14 01:55 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/15/14 01:57 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	05/15/14 02:59 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/17/14 12:13 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	daring	05/19/14 12:44 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Ggrass	05/19/14 01:01 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 02:18 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 04:11 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 08:24 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	owl777	05/20/14 08:50 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/20/14 09:20 PM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/23/14 12:16 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	05/26/14 01:51 AM
Re: New here - H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	06/10/14 01:21 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/27/14 10:47 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	beatrice	07/28/14 08:24 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Shining	07/28/14 08:17 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/28/14 11:53 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	beatrice	07/29/14 09:08 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/29/14 11:42 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Shining	07/30/14 01:16 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	07/30/14 01:24 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	07/30/14 02:33 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Shining	07/30/14 06:25 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	07/30/14 02:47 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/01/14 12:10 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	08/01/14 01:16 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/01/14 09:47 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	08/01/14 10:07 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/01/14 10:27 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	AJM	08/02/14 01:45 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/04/14 12:33 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	T-boned	08/05/14 06:19 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	08/06/14 02:00 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/07/14 01:59 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	BrightFuture	08/08/14 02:11 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/12/14 01:23 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Matt165	08/12/14 01:48 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	beatrice	08/12/14 07:39 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/13/14 02:02 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/19/14 02:29 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	job	08/19/14 12:23 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/20/14 01:14 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	HopeTex	08/20/14 09:26 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/30/14 01:55 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Mighty	08/30/14 04:06 AM
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Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Georgiabelle	08/30/14 04:29 AM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	LiveNow	08/30/14 11:18 PM
Re: H's MLC hit like a ton of bricks	Nitty	08/31/14 05:58 AM
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