I don't think I mentioned this before, but the other week, I offered up the following thought/idea to my wife.

If we're going to remain friends, then she will need to find a way to come to terms and let go of her anger towards me. Hate in her heart will burn in her for the rest of her life, and I know she doesn't want that.

She agreed wholeheartedly and said she'd be willing to try to go to counseling (in a month or two) to address some of these issues so that she can move on from the past and possibly forgive.

Possibly a ray of light, if nothing else, than to improve our friendship.

M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!