It's definitely a dealbreaker if they've resumed the affair.

I'm undecided if it's a dealbreaker if he's just not moving fast enough for me. As I've said, it's been back and forth with him since day one. I'm not sure how much longer I can stand it and as more time passes I keep thinking that it's becoming less and less likely that he's going to fully turn.

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14