Thanks Starsky. As always, appreciate the support.
I keep debating if I should go ahead and file D. Honestly, with H's latest about face it feels like a clear sign where his head is really at.
And I'm just sick of the whole thing. Not that D will make it any better but at least then we'd clearly be on a path and not this continuous reconcile/not reconcile roller coaster.
Also, I feel like I'm being played a fool right now.
If the current situation is a dealbreaker for you, that's something only you can decide. However I don't think you are seeing the "current situation" accurately.
Is it a dealbreaker for you if your husband is working in the same office as OW, not in any romantic contact with her or EA in any way, but he is failing to show remorse and failing to take the steps necessary -- at a pace fast enough -- to make you feel comfortable in the marriage?
Or is it only a dealbreaker if they have resumed their affair?
