I dont see how she cannot see how much damage she is gonna cause our kids by doing only what she wants . When you sign on to be a parent , you sign on
Then do YOUR part, Dawg -- because that's all you can control anyway. For a guy who keeps preaching about what SHE is doing to the kids, I don't see you doing what YOU need to do to step up, work thru your pain, and be there for them.
Your wallowing is NOT helping your boys -- not one bit.