She went to stay with the OM. I knew about this in advance and on the surface, showed her that I was OK (of course, deep down, I'm still having a hard time with it).
My daughter was crying uncontrollably asking for her mother. When I finally started to get her down and back to sleep, I became very angry at what I just went through and I sent her a barrage of heated text messages.
I said things like"
"a mother should be home with her 3 year old unless absolutely necessary. This is not necessary. It's selfish."
"You'll have the rest of your life to sleep with this guy once you're remarried to him."
"You're self-indulging at the expense of our children. I'm frustrated that you don't see anything wrong with this."
She did say at the time that she will come home right away if things are bad.
I recognize that I went way overboard and apologized the next day.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
