Wow, really good idea pbetra, I really have gotten so far from "me" over the last 20 years. Everything was always about "us", whether it was my W or one or both of the kids, everything seemed to revolve around my family. I also think as my W progressed in her MLC that got even worse as she would spend less and less time doing anything with the girls and I felt that they needed "family" time. I know I'm still dealing with how my D14 has dealt with my W's MLC. She has withdrawn as her mom would always seem to not want to do anything with her that she wanted to do.
I'll be thinking about different things that I want to do for me. When you're tired it's so easy to get stuck in "just get home and relax" mode but all that does is keep you stuck where you are. I sure don't want to be stuck where I am right now!
