Im slowly beginning to see that i cant control anything she does and never really could . I can try and influence but someone will only do what they really want to do . She made some major major mistakes and yes she is flopping all over the place . But i want her to know that she can stop flopping around and climb back in the bowl to survive .

I dont see how she cannot see how much damage she is gonna cause our kids by doing only what she wants . When you sign on to be a parent , you sign on


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )