Thanks, MLP. I have ups and downs like everyone else. My head is going into overdrive given the prospect of catching up with my H for the first time since we separated. In some ways, although I've been trying to put a bit of a WORK ON ME plan into action, I don't really feel like I've had an opportunity to test it out yet given the no contact. Have I changed? I'm not so sure. I'm definitely trying to do more for me outside of work and I do think my thinking has changed A LOT. Whether or not I am wearing these changes on the outside I just don't know. But I suppose that's not the point...


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014