Bea I want to read back through your threads and see what I can learn from a vet.
In the meantime I wanted to say I loved the idea of Shining game as well. I also love being able to leave books (many) on bed and having dogs in bed with me (they, love it too) and being able to stretch out like a starfish in the morning.
What I miss most (I know not part of game) is having someone to tell the cute little things s does or says. I tell my mom and sister and they chuckle but it is not the same.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15