Do you know, I hve totally forgotten (not suppressed) all the things that my xh apparently didn't like about me.
I tried to remember them while I was reading along - for laughs, and they have just evaporated. It all passes eventually, the hurt and pain.
You are a very courageous person who totally gets it. There have been some great posters here who no longer post Punkin and Wentikiti spring to mind but there are many more, who just went on with their lives with humour and grace.
Your attitude will help others here who are not as robust in their outlook yet. I wish I had learned as fast as you
