Just Journalling,

Been a few days in the house without WAW. Tbh it is kind of nice as the tension is way less. Not much progress on GAL, it is a very difficult situation as I have to work and take care of kids and being recently moved to the area no friends or people to mix with.

We've had some friendly txt exchanges, I'm only responding to her messages so that part of detachment is going ok.

I'm quite sure she's in contact with OM and probably has seen him since moving for uni, but can't control that. There's also a part of me that sees this an opportunity as when we were together there were a lot of life goals / things I couldn't do. Travel is one, she rarely liked it. However trouble is now that I'm a single parent that's quite difficult to accomplish.

If any other single parents that are in somewhat isolated rural areas have GAL ideas I'd really appreciate them, I'm finding that to be challenge.


Me: 40 W: 40
22 Years together, 14 Married
D8 + D7
Aug 2012 - Separated
Sep / Oct - Back Together
May 2014 - WAW / Divorce Bomb / Separation
Jun/Jul - Suspected Other man / Confirmed
Now - WAW moving out