I guess I was trying to illustrate in a story, if you expect total compliance with out question on your choices, then you are trying to control.
I wouldn't comment on her om or turn the spot light onto you, if you turn the bright lights on you she can focus on your faults. Just be a friend. Let her lead and talk on anything other than those 3^^^^ up there.
Weather, ice cream, kids, work shopping etc.
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M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26