I'm grateful for the vets because you guys are experienced in gifting 2X4. It truly helps get things in perspective when things just get crazy or confusing.
Bob, I would reread 25's post. That's some solid words of wisdom there. Actually, I would call it LBS boot camp! You'll be broken down to nothing so you can be rebuilt anew. If it seems harsh it's because you're not ready to accept your part in the demise of your M. Your mindset is not in the right state for growth. You're still pointing the finger at your wife. Yes, we know she has anger issues but she's not the one on here looking for help--YOU are! How can you receive help if you're not willing to own up to your issues? Stop focusing on what your W is doing wrong and how she's mistreating you (not that there's any valid excuse for abuse) and own up to your part. There's help for your issues here...plenty of it!
Be honest with yourself. Are you on here to save your M or are you wanting a reason to leave her permanently?
