I don't like 2x4s either. I just know I may need a few to make sure the knowledge leaves an impression.
Do you have an example of what an MLC affair might look like behind the glorious facade? I have read this, but mainly what it is "not" like....
Is it boring? High conflict? Does the MLCer just sleep all the time while she sits there knitting? He is a mess, for sure.
I did giggle once when I pulled into the parking lot of our drug store. H and OW were outside (if he didn't see me, his loss, I looked fabulous). Get this.... At REDBOX. Already there? Renting movies? That was awesome. And H hates movies. Depressed people can't focus for that long I guess.
I mainly hear (not just mine) about the trips, shopping, dinners, events, concerts, dates... I guess it's natural to envision that being a pretty good time. Oh, and the sex. But I don't envision that because I choose not to.
M44, H44, both M before M4 yrs, T6 BD 7/13 ILYB something isn't right with me H att suicide 2/14 S 4/14 OW disc 5/14 D final 4/15