I won't stay here all day in the motel while you sleep, and ruin my expensive over seas holiday.
It was no holiday, it was a trip to burry my nan and that gem was the day after! Supportive not, or threatening if I could not open my mouth and get my chit together he would force us in a plane to go home.
It's both controlling and punishing from the ic perspective. When I told her that story she pointed it out.
It depends on why and how you say things. If its all your way, then it's control. If your wife has a choice and you can go with her choice then that's not so much.
If I've explained that well enough.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
