Thanks, JG. I'm certainly trying. Humor is the new denial:)

H texted D13 again this evening. Earlier, H was asking about whether she would be going to (other state) to see her dad.

D13 answered no, and added, "why do you ask?"

H didn't reply until tonight, "because I didn't know if you are ok with that."

Would he really even care to know this? H has never even met xh.

H's D-Dad lived in another state when H was growing up, and from age 5-17, H and brothers spent summers with him.

Is this a possible childhood issue he's re-enacting or working through, or are MLCers in DEEEEEEEP REEEEEEEPLAAAAYYY not really thinking much at all, and I'm over analyzing? OUCH. ok. got it.

Strange thing, tho, since H doesn't usually text us during non-work hours. 8:30pm is typically OW time.

Venting, journaling, processing, documenting...detach detach detach.....and repeat:

NOT MY CIRCUS, NOT MY MONKEYS.

There. All better now.

M44, H44, both M before
M4 yrs, T6
BD 7/13 ILYB something isn't right with me
H att suicide 2/14
S 4/14
OW disc 5/14
D final 4/15