So W is here and she said that she was very exhausted and I responded sorry you should try to get some rest. I wanted to tell her when we got home to get in the bed but I didn't. She came home and told me to hang a painting that she brought because it didn't fit in my car. You have to understand that she was really happy about this painting and the frame and she wants me to hang it here not take it to her place. I fixed her something to eat and went to the living room and watched Tv and left her with the kids. I hope I did the right thing in giving her space on her off day. I spoke with my mother about this and she thinks that she left her clothes at home on purpose for a reason to come home, I hope so. So I am going to keep at it and try not to put any pressure on the W.