Saving my marriage by focusing on ME (Part 2)

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Had an interesting conversation with the MC about control.

She said that the word controlling is extremely over-used in marital situations.
Even in a good marriage it can be over used.

Also pointed out that a lot of men don't realize they are being controlling.
a perfect example is when your wife won't tell you certain things because she is afraid you will get angry...that's not control.

But when your wife won't DO certain things because she's afraid of how you'll react to that, that is control. ( she does not mean with OM or even girlfriends)