Hi I'm new, I hope I won't be a burden... prt 4

[MrBond]

"To be fair i didnt mean to portray women as sluts whom wear shorts.. its just my perspective on my wife."

So you're saying that your W is like a slut for wearing shorts. Not helping.

"A man can fall in love and marry a porn star and find it ok and normal."

And now you're relating our W's to porn stars. Again, immature and not helping.

"Everyone has a different perspective. I was merely saying it as it was out of character.."

No that's not what you said. If you had just said that it "was out of character" it would have been fine. But the fact that you chose a word as strongly derogatory as "slut", then you have alot of issues.

"as but what do i know.. clearly im f ucked from what you guys say so fuc k it.."

So I don't get it. Why are you here? I mean, you came here trying to get your W back and learn how to become a better man and husband. It doesn't seem like you want to do either.