On the brink, need a miracle

[Onguard]

Thanks for your fast reply Starsky. I have read many of your posts and I know you can help me. I have interviewed 2 attorneys so far and have 2 more I am waiting to hear from. The advice I have been given so far has been general. They told me not to try and move or hide any assets because it's impossible and it would not look good in court. Also some common sense instructions like don't be an ass.

Basically, I know where every dime is located and I have statements printed out as proof. I have cancelled her credit cards that were attached to mine. I have opened an individual savings and checking account and all future paychecks will be direct deposited into those accounts.

Here is a very recent update: She left her notebook on the desk in her office. I know I need to stop snooping but I could not resist. It was a type of rough journal where she listed the things she would miss about me and the things she would miss about her ap. I think it was her prep for the counseling. You can imagine that I did not fare too well on this comparison. I wouldn't expect to but seeing it on paper, in my wife's handwriting, was still like a dagger in the throat. She had 3 things listed for me. Financial security, comfort zone and family. (So really that is zero things about me). For him she had 7, including passion, excitement, trainer, shared interests.. How can you compare a 30 year relationship to a 6 month affair?