Thanks for this feedback. I know I am being dense. Only one week into this.
I know, and trust me, I am NOT trying to be a hardass here. This is going to take a long, concerted effort if you are going to be able to pull this off (and ultimately it will be mostly your wife's decision anyway, not yours) . . .and it IS very early in the process . . .
it's just that . . .
You only get ONE (ok, maybe two or three, but not many) "1st chances" at getting the TACK right. And I sense from you the past few days that after a couple of "YOU'RE SO CONTROLLING!" potshots from your wayward wife, you feel that it was a mistake to end your "Plan A" pursuit of her?
I could be wrong.
Her coming home seemed, to me anyway, to totally throw you for a loop, and throw you off your game. I think you need to get your mojo back.
