WAW not admitting to affair #3

[shodan]

Starsky

Thanks for this feedback. I know I am being dense. Only one week into this.

She knows that I don't approve of the A. Already said that to her Sunday about not living in an open M. Told her that I was committed to our M and our family but that she needed to end the A. As mentioned, she denied it. Said they were friends. Of course I know better.

So really all I can do is detach. Be a great dad. Be a great friend. Focus on me. Go to therapy. Read books on being a better husband.

Funny aside...I have read 30-40 books on martial arts (and watched countless youtube videos) but I never read a single book about being a better husband (or parent). I even read two books on how to train a dog. So I cannot be shocked that I am great at martial arts, can defend myself against multiple attackers, know how to break arms, joints, and choke people and have a dog that is "somewhat" trained but have a marriage where my wife is having A and wants a d. I truly recognize the irony in this.