Thank you for that LoisB, your advice is a great reminder of why I come on here to post in the first place. You all put things in perspective in a way that no one on the outside of this can. Our family and friends can say whatever they want, but as much as they try, they just don't get it.

I have to stop even thinking about these scenarios and just move forward... with just me and my 2 little ones. Thanks for helping me put the brakes on these thoughts.

Last edited by Ssarah; 07/29/14 08:04 PM.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home