First post, confused

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Thank you. I do feel good about getting those things out and clearing the air a bit with her, this detaching and finally saying how I feel about the OM and beginning to set my boundaries have made me feel a bit better at work today as well. I also feel better each time that I read back through.

I am really looking forward to going to the beach in a couple weeks with my mom and my sister +family. Then Im out of the country for a month, so this is great time to work on myself with myself. Im in this for the long haul, and realize my previous methods have been wrong and it's time to follow what has worked for others. Slow and steady wins the race here. Thanks for the support all.