Hi Sarah, I'm with Mighty here. My W and I came to an agreement that she wasn't going to get a L or file. One week later she leaves from D's graduation (once in lifetime event) without saying why. Find out that she went to see L and a couple days later tells me she not only saw him but she filed as well! This was several weeks before she even left the home! Since then all she has done is take things from the house that she wants but hasn't pursued since initial filing. That can (and will) change without a moments notice. All that has to happen is they get it in their head for any reason and it's off to the races without one thought to what it means down the road. Just be careful and expect the worse and be surprised if it doesn't come to pass.
